Luxury BBW companion // London // BDSM & GFE


I’m a woman who knows what she wants, and I like to spend my time with similarly minded companions. My tastes run from unhurried intimate encounters, to hedonistic passionate flings, to deviant kinky misbehaviour. So, take your time, and let’s get to know each other.

I’ve never been one for labels. I prefer expansiveness, fluidity, chemistry – letting go and seeing where the mood takes us, be that an afternoon in a bedroom, or a late night escapade to one of London’s darker little corners. Because of this, I’m hesitant to categorise myself too neatly. Yes, you might have found me after a search for a London BBW escort, but trust me, I’m much more than my curves. But don’t worry, I’ll forgive you if it takes you a little while to gather your thoughts after seeing them. It’s a common problem. 

My love for expansiveness spills over into my sexuality – whether I’m taking control as a Domme and bringing you to your knees, or submitting to your desires, for me what gets me off is a mutual connection, an authentic desire to immerse ourselves fully in the experience. I’m a fan of everything from Bourdieu to body worship, although perhaps not at the same time.

And whilst I love to thread power play throughout my life, kink is very much not the be all and end all for me. I’ve got a soft spot for more intimate, sensual GFE encounters as well – although I always laugh at that phrasing. The girlfriend experience is such a broad, catch all term. For me it usually means a commitment to pleasure, to unhurried luxury. When was the last time you gave yourself what you truly wanted? The last time you set aside a few hours perhaps, a whole evening, or an entire weekend, dedicated solely to you own pleasure? London is a glorious city, but the pace can be exhausting. You know the value of your time – so why choose to spend it with someone who doesn’t make you feel truly exceptional?

I’m a devotee of sensuality but with a healthy dose of playfulness. I try not to take anything or anyone too seriously – except for having a very good time.

If you’ve made it this far, I’m assuming you’d like to know a little more about me – and I’m more than happy to oblige. Privately educated and a lifelong student, I’ve recently completed my third degree, which means you’re officially allowed to call me Dr Swann. My academic background is in the Social Sciences, and I’m a smart conversationalist with an innate desire to learn more – I absorb knowledge with the same enthusiasm with which I play.

I’m constantly torn between a love of spontaneity and thrill-seeking, and a hopeless commitment to organisation and neatly ordered lists. All of which is to say, I can throw the most well-planned sex party you’ll ever attend.

In my private life, I’m driven by a desire to uncover the unfamiliar and the exciting – whether that’s the latest exhibition, a new piece of literature – or a new lover, and all of the thrill that comes with discovering someone’s predilections for the first time. I imagine that since you’re here, you also recognise the pure rush of ecstasy that comes from this experience – let’s explore it together.

What else would you like to know? Three of my favourite things are the thrill you get from jumping into cold water, the smell of the city after rain, and staying up late enough with a new lover to see dawn. My go-to drink order is a dry vodka martini with three olives (one to eat before you drink, one for mid way through, and one for afterwards) – although the minute the weather gets hot I drink Provence rosé like my life depends on it. I’m a classically trained pianist (although I haven’t played in years) and I speak passable French – enough to jump on a train to Paris and order un verre de vin blanc et une assiette de fromage.

I’m an avid wild swimmer, and have been known to hurl myself enthusiastically into sub ten degree water. My favourite book of the Bible is the Song of Songs, and I once cried for ten minutes straight in the back of a Mexican taxi whilst reading A Little Life, as we drove over the mountains in Oaxaca.

People tell me I’m intimidating (which I often think just means I wear red lipstick most of the time) but I’m really very silly and soft once you get to know me – in a chic, sexy sort of way, of course.


The finer print

So now you know a little more about me, let’s get down to the nuts and bolts of our time together. I usually like to host from a gorgeous apartment in Soho – on the off chance this isn’t available, I’m happy to arrange a hotel room for the two of us to meet in. I’m also very happy to visit you at your hotel in London zones 1-2. Dates further afield might be possible, but I will charge a small travel fee.

My fees start from £600 for 90 minutes (more details here), but this very much depends on where we meet and what we get up to in our time together – please get in touch for a more detailed quote. For an initial meeting, I recommend two hours, allowing us time to really explore each other’s desires. Shorter trysts of an hour are available to current lovers, subject to availability. I ask for a deposit of 20% for all bookings,  paid via bank transfer or gift card.

Whilst I’m always very happy to keep our liaisons to the bedroom, dates which start with dinner or drinks always have a special place in my heart – give me the chance to put on an extravagant outfit and bright lipstick and flirt outrageously over a cocktail and I’m there. If you’d like some ideas of how we might spend our time together, I’ve jotted down some thoughts here. I also play very well with others, and have a host of beautiful friends available at the drop of a hat.

I adore longer dates, so if you would like to spend the night together – or the day, the weekend or more – get in touch.

Still have questions? They’re probably answered here.

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