Pinwheels and Powerplay
There are some things in life which, when we see them for the first time, we’re inherently drawn to. This is as true in kink and BDSM as it is with art, and I think our favourite toys say a lot about us as kink archetypes. For me, my hands always reach for the pinwheel, […]
May and Moments
I hope April treated you well – keeping my fingers crossed that May finally brings some consistent good weather so I can go back to wearing indecent dresses in a beer garden. Each month, I’ll be posting a new blog filled with a suggestion of places I’d like to visit, things I’d like to do…and […]
Water and Wonder
“For whatever we lose (like a you or a me),It’s always our self we find in the sea.”― e.e. cummings I love water. Since I learned how to swim as a child, there hasn’t been a river I won’t jump into, a sea I won’t run enthusiastically towards, a pool I won’t float for hours […]
April and Appreciation
Spring is almost upon us! I’ve had an incredible year already – some extremely memorable dates, a trip to India and much much more. I’m going to be adjusting my working practices soon, prioritising longer dates where we can get to know each other. I’m keen to build some deeper connections this year and I […]
India and Ivy
The weather is getting warming, the days are getting longer, and the rapid approach of spring is making me desperate to plan some adventures. On that note, I’m so excited to announce that I’m planning a tour to India in March 2024, with my darling Ivy Grace. So if you’ve been lusting after a date […]
Martinis and Moments
“I like to have a martini, two at the very most – after three I’m under the table, after four, I’m under my host.” – Dorothy Parker Where to find the best martini in London I consider myself a fairly easy-going dinner guest. My taste in food is broad, and I’ll try almost anything twice. […]
Winter and Wandering
We’ve made it through the holidays and the winter doldrums are setting in. The short days and cold weather of January and February always have me craving sun and warmth, and I’m guessing you’re no different. These months are the perfect time to book an escape to sunnier shores, and not to brag, but I […]
January and Joyfulness
It is undeniable that January is a difficult month for many people. The excesses of Christmas are over, we’re tired and it’s cold. However, for the last few years, I’ve made a promise to myself that I’m not going to let January get me down. Instead, I see it as a time for personal indulgence, […]
Couples and Curiosity
Let me set the scene for you. It’s a dark bar. You’re sitting with your partner, legs touching under the table. Two glasses of wine in front of you. Just another everyday date night. Then, I walk in, and everything changes. You and your partner have been curious about spicing up your relationship. A threesome […]
Sensual Domination and Sensuality
The Art of Sensual Domination: A Masterclass in Control Sensual domination is, in my opinion, a misunderstood part of BDSM. It’s often seen as a ‘less serious’ form of domination, ‘softer’ and less intense. However, when done right, sensual domination can be a way to create deeply powerful scenes. As someone who is an expert […]